You know sometimes life just drags you to the floor when you don't deserve to be on the floor. This has nothing to do with being humble and all, but it does in a way. LoL. What I'm trying to emphasise is that e.g. if your regarded as being a humble person, bad things seem to hover and follow you. Whereas when your rude, all good comes at a flick of a finger.
Cutting the chase a bit shorter, to me it seems like Lesbians are much more happier than gays in
South Africa. Lesbians are a close knit family that take care of each other, build each other, motivate and uplift each other. I've never heard of sub-categories within lesbianism, unless I'm not well informed. Lesbians are lesbians, and they love each other like that. As for gays, we have straight acting gays, fem gays, drag gays, after nine gays, gay gays...etc. This may seem like a petty issue but it bothers me because it just proves how segregated we are, love is lacking within our family. I often hear statements from "straight" gays saying that they hate "fem" gays and they would never date them unless if they are just sex partners, Or rather state that:drag gays are bitches, they deserve to be prostitutes, or better yet, killed. All this being uttered from the mouth of a man who has sexual ties with another man! HOW REDICULOUS!
I just turned 19 a month ago, and through all my nineteen years of gay life, I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 2 months, either the "partner" is only interested in sex, which I don't offer, or he doesn't want to be seen in public with a gay guy, but yet he says he loves me. Yes, we are not married and there's no need for strings and commitments between us, but cant you at least be more of a partner than a passer-by. In most cases you'll find that the bottom partner has dreams of getting married one day, and the tops dreams and future plans revolve around bedroom matters only. Is it because we bottoms have feelings and emotions and our handsome tops have only sexual needs? Why is there a lack of understanding and tender loving care within our community as opposed to the Lesbian community??? Do gay guys even enjoy valentines?
Its hurts me a lot when I see gay guys enjoy being one night standees. You log in on a social network and all you see is gay guys being in a "no strings attached" relationship or "friends with BEDnefits" relationship. Why cant we love, or at least why cant we like each other then? Where is the love? W hat happened to the Bromance concept???
#Lord help us.
